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While the focus of this chapter is on perinatal loss, other reproductive losses including miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy, infertility, and pregnancy termination for fetal anomaly are briefly considered and contrasted.
The growing recognition of the usually intense grief after perinatal loss culminated in the first major study of this death by Peppers and Knapp 7 infollowed by more than a dozen handbooks over the next decades directed at bereaved parents.
Illumination of the typical pattern of profound grief after this type of death coincided, ironically, with richly textured descriptions of the individualized reactions to perinatal loss.
In her mind she maintained the continuity of the cycle of life. By kissing the umbilicus she was remembering her creative link with the baby in utero; kissing the mouth may be linked to the kiss of life, to resuscitation.
The mother longed for her son to grow teeth and learn to walk. Creating memories about her baby in this way facilitated mourning. See reviews by Leon 1112 and Zeanah 4 for more extended discussion. Studies in the United States, Canada, Great Britain, Sweden, and Australia revealed a similar pattern of intense grieving after this loss.
However, methodological weaknesses such as failing to use measures specific to perinatal loss or to track the trajectory of this grief made it difficult to clearly understand what is unique about death at the inception of life and also made it difficult to detect early high-risk factors leading to later psychological difficulty.
Hospital practice, however, dramatically improved. This decade marked the increasingly routine use of protocols embedded in perinatal bereavement programs helping parents to grieve the death of their child.
Kellner 13 pioneered perhaps the earliest multidisciplinary, hospital-based Perinatal Mortality Counseling Program integrating effective counseling with data collection and research.
Finally, nonmedical caregivers played a crucial role in spawning self-help groups and materials emphasizing the importance of developing social support and recognition for this previously ignored loss.
Under the direction of Sister Jane Marie, for more than a decade, SHARE founded in provided a model for more than community-based self-help groups oriented to pregnancy loss throughout the United States and other countries.
Improving Research and Individualizing Care During the late s and throughout the s, more sophisticated questionnaire measures of perinatal loss were developed, helping to longitudinally track long-term outcome as well as understand the different dimensions of this loss.
Using their Perinatal Bereavement Scale, Theut and colleagues 1819 reported that recovery from pregnancy loss was often facilitated by a successful subsequent pregnancy. This scale has been used among subjects in 22 studies from 4 countries with strikingly consistent findings.
The emotional expression embodied in "active grieving" has been shown to limit more extended and despairing grief, and dreaming has been reported to facilitate coping with grief. One study of middle-class, mostly college-educated, African-American women indicated the importance of sharing grief with family and support networks, nurturing memories and keeping memorabilia of the baby, and considering a subsequent pregnancy with trepidation—all common findings in the usual middle to upper-middle class population of almost all perinatal loss studies.
In discussing the psychological tasks confronting the parents after perinatal loss, the corresponding meanings of pregnancy will be reviewed.
Mourning the Death of a Baby Attachment to the Baby-to-Be By the last trimester of pregnancy, both expectant parents, but especially the mother, develop an intense attachment to their unborn child as a unique, separate person, 26272829 indicating the importance of applying attachment theory in understanding perinatal loss.
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